Life in the Slow Lane

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Two Hearts: An Adoptee’s Journey through Grief to Gratitude by Linda Hoye | A Review — July 30, 2013

Two Hearts: An Adoptee’s Journey through Grief to Gratitude by Linda Hoye | A Review

Today on my book blog, Found Between the Covers, you will find my review of Linda Hoye’s memoir, Two Hearts: An Adoptee’s Journey through Grief to Gratitude. A portion of the review is below. It is my hope that you’ll follow the link provided to read the rest.

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Linda Hoye opens her memoir with a quote from Alex Haley:

In all of us there is a hunger, marrow deep, to know our heritage–to know who we are and where we came from. Without this enriching knowledge, there is a hollow yearning. No matter what our attainments in life, there is still a vacuum, an emptiness, and the most disquieting loneliness.

I sat for some time focusing on these words because I felt they held the core of the author’s story. The words “vacuum,” “emptiness” and “disquieting loneliness” gripped my heart, and I had not read the first page.

Hoye shares her story with a compelling voice exuding genuineness and poignancy as she allows us to join her on a journey to find her biological parents, to fill that void. She never diminishes the love and care she received from her adoptive parents, Ed and Laura Brauer. However, certain actions on the part of the sBrauers raises questions in Hoye’s mind. In the 1950s, two standard morés were in place: the “chosen baby” story and secretive behaviors about adoption.

To read the rest click here . . .

Wednesday Wanderings — July 24, 2013

Wednesday Wanderings

Breakfast was finished. Laundry sorted, and I’m putting the first load in the washer.
“I think I’ll walk over and check on the blackberries.” That was my husband calling out from the family room.

“If you’ll wait until I’m finished here, I’ll wander over with you.”

And off we went fairly early this morning. Our wandering takes us just around the corner from our house. The blackberries grow wild along the perimeter of the land on which sits the saddest house in the neighborhood. No one has ever seemed to love it, and vines have grown up over some windows and doors. It sits vacant. Its elderly owner unable to live there any longer. She refuses to sell.

Image: Wikimedia Commons
Image: Wikimedia Commons

But the blackberries are not daunted. As most of us know, wild blackberries are tenacious and grow usually where you don’t want them. White blossoms could be seen before we hit the bottom of the hill. The sun glinted on berries, red and black, and some not tinged with color yet.

On this morning, we find their transformation underway from buds and blossoms to red berries turning to black. Not quite read by a taste test taken while checking out the quantity.

“Another day or two of this sunny weather, and they’ll be pie ready.” My husband smiles and nods in agreement as he pops just one more berry in his mouth.

We turn and walk down the road, taking the long way home.

Why am I sharing this with you?

Since early morning I had tried to write, but nothing was coming to the fingers and keys I manipulated. That’s when I stopped to sort the laundry.

Returning from our berry walk, I resumed my place at the desk in front of my laptop. And suddenly the fog cleared and mental clarity struck. I began writing, and soon it was coming together on the screen.

Clearing the head, exercising the body, breathing fresh air combine to make for a good restart to your writing. Try it the next time you’re stuck.

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“If you get stuck, get away from your desk. Take a walk, take a bath, go to sleep, make a pie, draw, listen to ­music, meditate, exercise; whatever you do, don’t just stick there scowling at the problem.”

~ Hilary Mantel

Betty’s Child by Donald R. Dempsey | A Review and Giveaway — July 22, 2013

Betty’s Child by Donald R. Dempsey | A Review and Giveaway

Today I have posted a review of Donald R. Dempsey’s memoir, Betty’s Child, on my book blog, Found Between the Covers.  As part of the blog tour sponsored by WOW! Women on Writing, a copy of Betty’s Child will be presented to one lucky commenter. I invite you to join me there and learn more about the book and its author and to participate in the giveaway.

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Image: WOW! Women on Writing
Image: WOW! Women on Writing

In the tradition of Frank McCourt and Angela’s Ashes, Donald Dempsey chronicles one boy’s ordeals with poverty, religion, and physical and mental abuse as he attempts to come of age with only his street smarts and sense of humor to guide him.

Twelve-year-old Donny is a real-life cross between Huckleberry Finn and Holden Caulfield. Donny is doing his best to navigate the world he shares with his cruel and neglectful mother, his mother’s abusive boyfriends, churchgoers who want to save Donny’s soul, and a best friend who wants Donny to go to work for a dangerous local thug doing petty theft and dealing drugs.

Donny does everything he can to take care of himself and his younger brothers, but with each new development, the present becomes more fraught with peril–and the future more uncertain.

In scene after vivid scene, Dempsey presents his inspiring true story with accomplished style. Dempsey’s discipline as a writer lends the real-life tale the feel of a fictional page-turner.” Kirkus Reviews

(Synopsis from WOW! Women on Writing)

You can read my review here . . .

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